Thoughts and feelings are the least things i ever want to post in my blog here.The fact that some people are going to be bothered by my thoughts just prevent me from penning down my thoughts and feelings.Even if i did let my feelings known to all,it doesnt really do much improvement so at the end of the day my thoughts are considered to be in vain.They know what i think and they get bothered,it would not make everyone's life better.
So here is an advice to all.Your opinions are like flaming coals.It burns a hole down in somebody's heart.While you might think that you are keeping it to yourself,the flames simply burns anything around it, unknowly to you.At the same time,having such flaming coals with you burns yourself. In the end,everyone gets hurt.So just dispel any bad opinions you have of others
It makes life much better without these negative perspective of others.
you see the beauty of everything suddenly..
everyone feels happy to receive nice remarks of themself.But it has been a long time since nice remarks are present.Therefore everyone nearly forgets the taste of nice remarks.Then suddenly they hear nice remarks and they dun know how to response to it.You know we often say most people are unable to handle critism well?well,it is the same for compliments,they do not know how to handle them well.They presume that it is self delusion, just like they think it is self perfection when they choose not to take critism.
when you think you are perfect..you cannot take critism
when you think you are inperfect..you cannot take compliments
in conclusion,reverse psychology is really powerful in altering mentality
